Success Through Determination
Posted on | Sunday 13 March 2011 | No Comments
He was determined. At times he fell behind other cyclists in different stages of the races. Reportedly, falling behind was on purpose so he could conserve his strength for more difficult stages. Other times, it was because someone, perhaps a sprinter, put on a burst of speed and outdid him. Whatever, he kept himself from being discouraged, figured out how he could have done better, and charged forth again with victory in mind.
We say that because if he were a good husband, he would have worked on preserving his marriage, and wouldn't have a bevy of "relationships" behind him. His legitimate children would still have a full time father, and his other children wouldn't have to carry the stigma of illegitimacy around with them all of their lives.
Perhaps the fact that he was an illegitimate child, himself, that his birth father left him and his mother, and that his mother had married and divorced three times, had something to do with his attitude toward relationships Or perhaps it was his lack of faith as an agnostic. He is quoted as saying: At the end of the day, if there was indeed some body or presence standing there to judge me, I hoped I would be judged on whether I had lived a true life...
He wants to live a true life, but he abandons those who love him. Yes, he was true to cycling. No, he wasn't true in his personal life. Or so it seems. However, since we don't know the man personally, it could be that he would have been true had his wives been true. We don't know who was at fault, but if he is like the majority of men, and especially since he had to be gone much of the time to pursue his career, it is likely that he didn't meet his wives' and girlfriends' emotional needs - essential for women.
Every marriage should strive to reach the arte level, the Greek word for excellence. "We have already achieved it" says the newlywed who is still starry-eyed and the truth hasn't hit the fan yet. "We're doing fine," says the husband who isn't meeting his wife's emotional needs. "I gave up trying," says the wife who has given up hope.
That's what our Love Relationship System is all about - showing couples how to reach that level of arte or close to it so that their marriages will stay strong and secure.
By doing that you can do him one better and preserve your own marriage and give your children parents that raise them to be solid, secure and trustworthy adults. We give you the tools and the keys for doing just that atwww.loverelationshipheadquarters.com: separate tools both for men and for women. Come join us now for a sparkling future in your marriage.
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